Host an orphan, change a life

By May 18, 2016

Malawi (MNN) — Force for Christ, an international hosting program for orphans, is gearing of for another hosting summer and needs families to help.

For those who don’t know what orphan hosting is, Chad LaForce with Force for Christ explains, “Hosting is where an orphan child from another country comes and stays for a period of between four to six weeks with a Christian family in the United States. And so we facilitate that whole process.”

(Photo Courtesy Force for Christ via Facebook)

(Photo Courtesy Force for Christ via Facebook)

This year, Force for Christ will be helping others host orphans from Malawi during the months of July and August. In Malawi, there are literally thousands and thousands of orphans.

The people there face numerous trials and challenges including poverty, starvation, malaria, and high HIV rates. Many of these are the very reason why many children are parentless.

“A lot of their twenty-and-thirty-something-year-old parents, many many of them die. So you have thousands of orphans without an orphanage, without any infrastructure. Often times without food. Literally with just the shirt on their back,” LaForce says. In some cases, it’s rare they’re even being taken care of by an adult.

But through orphan hosting, these kids get a chance to experience life differently. For the first time, in possibly their whole lives, they can sleep in a safe place, go to sleep with full bellies, and know what it’s like to have even just one parent, let alone two, tuck them in at night with love.

If concerns for language and cultural barriers is a hindrance for hosting, don’t’ worry, Force for Christ puts all its families through training for good techniques and tips for dealing with cultural and language challenges.

And as for the language barriers, most of these children know English. But during transit, they are accompanied by a translator to help. Also, most times, kids are able to pick up 50 or 60 words over conversational English.

(Photo/Caption Courtesy Force for Christ vie Facebook) N is 11 and in the 7th grade. She loves school and enjoys sports such as basketball. She's never left her village and is barely surviving on one meal a day as an orphan. She dreams of coming to America to be hosted this summer for 5-6 weeks!

(Photo/Caption Courtesy Force for Christ vie Facebook)
N is 11 and in the 7th grade. She loves school and enjoys sports such as basketball. She’s never left her village and is barely surviving on one meal a day as an orphan. She dreams of coming to America to be hosted this summer for 5-6 weeks!

For many who host children, their relationships with these kids don’t end when they put them back on a plane home. Often times, the families and kids keep in contact and continue building their relationships.

Though it’s easy to think these few weeks won’t make an impact. They will. LaForce explains how, when making a field visit in Malawi and handing out dresses, there was one girl who didn’t get a dress. The Force for Christ team scrounged to make it work, and were able to come up with a dress for the little girl.

“The elder of her village saw this happening and two days later, at one of our wrap up meetings, stood up and said ‘you changed the life of that girl fundamentally,” LaForce recounts.

This was the first gift this little girl had ever received. It was also an answered prayer. As she watched others receive dresses, she prayed and prayed for God to provide one for her, He did. Now, this little girl tells everyone she can about Christ. Not only was she shown an act of love and kindness through the dress, she also saw God move in her life.

This was the impact on one girl’s life because of a gift. Imagine what a month with a family could do.

When families host orphans, they have the unique opportunity to share the Gospel, not only in word but also in deed. Families get to love an orphaned child like their own, kind of like the way God has loved us. If you have the room and you’re interested, then consider hosting an orphan and being a part of changing a child’s life.

However, regardless, please pray that God would provide the right host families for the job. Pray for their future relationships and the kids they’ll be building them with. And pray that ultimately His goodness, grace, and love would be evident through the whole process and these kids would come to know Christ.

If you’re interested in learning more about hosting, click here!

To donate to Force for Christ or to support a family, click here!

5 Comments

  • Master says:

    Lord i pray that you must provide Malawi with the right host families for the job, their future relationships and the kids they will be building them with. God, you goodness, grace, and love must be evident through the whole process and your kids should know you amen.

  • I will attempt to sensitive people I know, especially my churches mission group about this problem and perhaps promote interest in hosting an orphan. I am unable to do this because my husband and I are elderly and disabled. But I can pray and that I will do.

  • Hi LeForce, God bless you for this foundation Force for Christ ” Host an orphans, change a life. We ( my wife Darlene) and I are deaf adult. I was wondering have you see any deaf orphans at Malawi? By the way I am Anonited deaf assistant teacher for deaf youth ministry. I am praying for these children will be feeding and clothes and shelter for good. God’s grace is so powerful, once we faithfully believed anything will be possible because Christ loves children so much, so we, too. Please let me know about deaf children orphans that you’ve found it, email me.

    Mat the Lord Jesus bless you richly.

  • Beth Stolicker says:

    Hello,

    To contact the LeForces of Force for Christ, I would encourage you to click the “Email Liz LaForce, Director” link at the bottom of their page here, http://forceforchrist.org

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